Bible 365: Week 52



I did it!!  Seriously, y'all have no idea how proud and happy I am to have read the Bible in its entirety in 365 days.  This has been a goal of mine for quite some time and to be able to mark it off my list is definitely an accomplishment.  I took a HUGE risk writing about my faith and my thoughts on God's word here on the blog.  You hear all of these dos and don'ts for bloggers when you first start out and usually the first two things on the list of things NOT to blog about are faith and politics.  

And honestly, that's just sad.  It's disturbing to think that because I want to share my views and beliefs that I would be labelled a blogger to avoid or not follow.  Well, I stand firm on what I believe in.  Furthermore, at the end of day this is my blog.  As such, I deem the right to talk about any and every thing that I want to.  I follow and read blogs of other people who aren't Christian and don't believe in anything.  That's their right.  I don't pass judgment on them in the least.

Now, this week was all about the detailing the return of Christ, the purging of the evils from the Earth and Heaven and rebirth.  We get to read about what signs we need to be on the watch for, how the Earth and those who have renounced God will be destroyed and more importantly we get an inside glimpse of what Heaven is really like.  We've seen movies try to recreate it but reading about how Heaven will look just leaves me in awe of the opulence and luxury that God is surrounded by on a daily basis.

I've learned to "[b]e merciful to those who doubt; save others by snatching them from the fire; to others show mercy, mixed with fear- hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh" (Jude 1:22-23).  At the end of day we have the power to lead to others to Christ.  And I think a lot of times, we as Christians do ourselves a disservice by not showing mercy to those we consider sinners.  We're all in their face with it's my way or the highway, when it really should be God's way!  The saying tells us that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

Likewise, we can lead and entice more followers to try to at least read the Bible by extending a merciful hand to help save from a life wrong living and eternal damnation.  It's all about approach people.  Also, we need to look at ourselves and "[c]onsider how far you have fallen!  Repent and do the things you did at first.  If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place" (Revelation 2:5).  Remember to let him who is without sin cast the first stone.  See what's in your closet that you need to repent for before even attempting to condemn someone else.

"Do not be afraid of what you are about to suffer.  I tell you, the devil will put some of you in prison to test you, and you will suffer persecution for ten days.  Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you life as your victor's crown" (Revelation 2:10).  Always trust in God.  Always keep the faith.  People ask me how can I stay so positive in the mist of everything I have been through and this scripture is it.  God is with me no matter what I'm going through.  These trials on Earth are worth the rewards I reap later on here on Earth and definitely in Heaven. 

God has assured me that "I know your deeds.  See, I have placed before you an open door that no one can shut.  I know that you have little strength, yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name" (Revelation 3:8). Better days will come and for now I choose to hold on to the thing and one person who is forever with me-my faith and God.  It's always my hope that no matter what material blessings God gives me in the future that I will stay humble and never adopt the mindset that I can buy way into Heaven or that I don't need God at all (see Revelations 3:17).

"Then war broke out in heaven.  Michael and his angels fought against the dragon, and the dragon and his angels fought back.  But he was not strong enough, and they lost their place in heaven.  The great dragon was hurled down-that ancient serpent called the devil , or Satan, who leads the whole world astray.  He was hurled to the earth, and his angels with him" (Revelation 12:7-9).  Honestly, it still puzzles me as to 1) how could Satan turn his back on God who created him and gave him life, 2) think he could defeat God and take over heaven and 3) convince other angels to join in on his foolish and clearly not well thought out scheme?

I mean seriously, Satan, you tried to go to battle against God who's immortal and can't be killed.  He's all powerful remember?  So, even if you and your angels had killed all of the good angels and other hosts of heaven, with a wink God would have been able to destroy and defeat you and your army. 

Revelation 21:19-21 describes Heaven as have wall "made of jasper, and the city of pure gold, as pure as glass.  The first foundation was jasper, the second sapphire, the third agate, the fourth emerald, the fifth onyx, the sixth ruby, the seventh chrysolite, the eighth beryl, the ninth topaz, the tenth turquoise, the eleventh jacinth and the twelfth amethyst.  The twelve gates were twelve pearls each ate made of a single pearl.  The great street of the city was of gold, as pure as transparent glass."  You got yourself thrown out of the most loving, peaceful, wonderful, luxurious, comfortable, compassionate, joyful and righteous place ever!!  Like really y'all was trippin' fo' real!  

Trust me, when I make it to heaven, I'm not even trying to sneeze wrong and get kicked out of there.  To be able to be in a place where sickness doesn't exist, where I will be safe and where I won't have any needs except to continue giving thanks for God and all he's done is a dream I'm working hard to achieve by following God's commands.  If you think not living right isn't fun or worth the effort then you need to read about the seven wraths of God in Revelations 16.

There's the wrath of sores, the wrath of the sea turning to blood and all the sea animals dying (bye bye seafood), the wrath of the fresh water turning to blood (bye bye drinking water), the wrath of the sun (got sunblock because you're going to need it and them some), the wrath of the beasts's defeat, the wrath of preparation that dries up the Euphrates and unleashes three demonic spirits and last the wrath of the world's worst and most destructive earthquake ever!!  Nope, I don't want to have to experience or suffer through none of that.  I rather live like I'm supposed and getting ascended into Heaven along with his other faithful servants.

At the end of the day I try to remember this "It is done.  I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End.  To the thirsty I will give water without cost from the spring of the water of life.  Those who are victorious will inherit all this, and I will be their God and they will be my children.  But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars- they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur.  This is the second death" (Revelation 21:6-8). We have the power to determine where we end up.  God has given us free will, He has sacrificed His son and now He's shown us what we have to look forward to if He keep our hand in His and repent when we fall short.  I hope pray that each of us chooses well!

I've been humbled and grateful by the support that I have gotten for my Bible 365 posts.  I've said this a million times before, but thank you, thank you, thank you for reading and commenting.  I can't properly put into words how much your support has meant to me.  I hope that in some way if you're a Christian, I have inspired you to become closer with God.  And if you're on the fence, I pray that I inspired you to at least see what the Bible and being a Christian is really about.

Also, Happy New Year's Eve!!  I'll be posting a recap of how I did with my resolutions/goals from this year tomorrow.  And then Friday, I will post about what I will be working hard to accomplish in 2014.  Hope to see you in the New Year!



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2013 Recap

My Week 52 Bible 365 post will up tomorrow.  I didn't want to post it today since it actually doesn't end until tomorrow.  Today, I'm doing a recap of all the adventures, ups and downs that was tossed our way in 2013.  It's been fun revisiting some of these posts and I hope that you will check them out.  Also, I noticed some posts have comments on them that I thought I had replied but didn't.  So, you might get an email notifying you about a comment I'm just now replying to that's a couple months old.



January

We started out 2013 with a everybody in the house getting sick.  What a way to celebrate the New Year huh?  I also started on one of my New Year's resolution with the introduction of the Bible 365 Challenge.  Most importantly, YUMMommy turned three years old this past January!

February

I got busy in the kitchen and made some savory bbq meatballs for the SuperBowl.  I've made them a few times since then and will probably make them again this upcoming SuperBowl.  I opened up about how both of my maternal grandparents died from complications related to heart disease.  I'm still very passionate about supporting charities that work to help raise awareness for this disease.  And Moo morphed into mini mommy mode with her brother. Seriously, it's still the cutest thing ever!

March

I took a big step and purchased the YUMMommy domain for the blog!  I also got a great head start on my Christmas shopping for Moo at an awesome Spring toy sale at Walmart.  Hoping to be able to catch a good sale after the New Year's and this upcoming Spring too!

April

We did something different this year and made our Easter baskets!  It was a big hit with the kids and will be doing it again this upcoming Easter.  I went to Lake Junaluska for the first time and fell in love!  I'm really aching to go back and would love to live there some day.  I can definitely see the Mr and I growing old there.  Moo got her first pets, but sadly they passed away. 

May

My little guy turned two!  Who knew time would fly by so fast.  My entire family (minus the Mr) and I took a road trip to New Orleans for my older sister's wedding.  Hands down the best trip I have taken in my adult life!  The jokes, fun and family bonding was like no other.  We're trying to plan another trip to New Orleans and I know it's going to be even better.

June

We beat cabin fever and enjoyed a wonderful day at the ImaginOn.  When I say that place is cool, I mean it's sweet!  Ipads, toys, exhibits, workshops and so much more make this library one of best libraries I've ever been to.  It's definitely the best library here in the Queen City!

July

I've always been a fan of crafting and decided to get the kids in on the action too with an Arts & Crafts Bucket List.  Moo and I wasted no time getting started and made homemade playdough hand imprints.  Life started throwing us lemon after lemon starting with our last landlord terminating our lease because he didn't want to make any repairs.  Check out that story here.

August

The Mr asked me to marry him all over again. Needless to say I said yes of course.  Who would turn down the change to have a wedding after eloping?  Life is more complicated and we've been thinking about putting the vow renewal ceremony on hold for another year, but I'll keep you posted in the New Year.

Septmeber

I had pregnancy scare that had me wondering about if there was a right time for us to have a third child and if we were pregnant would be able to handle it with everything that was already going on.  Well, the results came back negative and honestly I was kind of crushed about it.  While we aren't playing to have another baby for a while, I had allowed myself to get my hopes up anyway.  I also bit the bullet and filmed my first vlog!!  Talk about nerve wrecking.

October

Things went south with our current rental, but again God opened up a window to help things workout in our favor.  Won't He do it?!  Life may get hard but I refuse to just stand still and take it.  After the shenanigans that went down with our last landlord, I have learned to take action from the jump start.  I am about my business when it comes to my family, making sure where we stay is in order, my money and my brands.

November

The Mr's work schedule got crazy busy and to avoid missing out on being able to put the Christmas tree up as a family, we put it up after Halloween!  Too early for some, but just right for our family.  We discovered what it was like to live next door to college students and how sometimes it can bring out the inner mean girl in me.

December

This month Moo turned five and I cried again!  I had the pleasure of writing for Kokoa Magazine!  It was a wonderful experience and I look forward to doing it again in the future.  I celebrated my 28th birthday with my loves.  Christmas came and went leaving me with the reminder of all that I had to be thankful for.


Overall, this year has been a year of ups and downs.  However, everything that happened went down for a reason.  I think our bad times have made me stronger, wiser and smarter.  I'm looking forward to taking everything that I've learned into the New Year.  By applying these lessons in 2014, I know that my family and I will be elevated to higher heights and better able to deal with issues as they come our way.


What was the best highlight from your 2013?


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Thankful Thursday



I know Christmas was yesterday, but Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays everyone!  If I could describe yesterday in one word, I would describe it as blissful.  Last year, we started the tradition of not traveling on Christmas Day.  Wherever we are is where we celebrate and so far we've been home.  I'm hoping that next Christmas the Mr can take some vacation days and we spent Christmas week up North or in the mountains with snow!



I'm thankful foremost that we got to celebrate the day, we reserve as being Jesus' birthday!  The gift of his birth is so special that I don't ever think we can repay God for what He did.  Moo got her wish and we made Jesus a birthday cake.  I didn't have any birthday candles to put on it, but I'm sure he appreciates our gesture all the same.  I tweeted about it on Twitter and was surprised to find that other families make a birthday cake instead pies or other desserts for Christmas as well.  I think this will be a tradition we add on from here on out too.  It's the least we can do to show our gratefulness. 

I'm thankful that Moo gets what Christmas is all about.  I know so many kids her age don't even know the true meaning of Christmas or what it's like to have the Christmas spirit.  They're so young, but caught up in commercialization already.  I wasn't raised that way and I'm not raising my kids that way.  I want them to be able to celebrate Christmas whether we're exchanging gifts or not.  I'm thankful for the fact that Moo is so thoughtful.

She told me Tuesday and yesterday, that she and her brother have enough toys and that wants to share them with other kids who don't have any.  I'm telling y'all this little girl and her compassion are melting my heart everyday.  As parents, we're constantly doubting and worrying about what kind of people we're raising our children to be and things like this just show me that I'm on the right track.  I'm not perfect, but I'm definitely putting some good values and morals into her and JJ.

I'm thankfully that while JJ has been having complete meltdowns during his speech therapy session, except for the one that the Mr was able to join us for, he's making a little progress.  He's been making the M sound a lot and I think we're getting close to him saying Mommy or Mama.  I feel like it's right on the tip of his tongue and all we need is a little breakthrough.  I'm thankfully again for all the words of encouragement I've been getting still.  No meltdowns for me this week.  I'm staying positive.

I'm thankful for my wonderful friends.  We don't see each other often because we live in different states, cities or have a lot going on,  but we've all been keeping in touch on a regular basis as of late.  I'm hoping that we can get a reunion of some kind going this summer or next fall.  I miss them!  They have been my support through so much.  They know things about me that my family doesn't even know.  I can tell them anything and know that it's going to the grave.  Friendship like that is very rare these days.

As this year comes to a close (this is our last Thankful Thursday for 2013!!) I just want to say thank you to all of you for riding with me this year.  Your comments, emails, and tweets mean so much to me.  Know that I don't take your taking the time out to read what I have to say for granted.  At all!  You all have been nothing short of a blessing.

I hope that you will stick with me as we go into 2014!  I'm looking forward to getting more personal and talking subjects that I've never delved into before here on YUMMommy.  I'm hoping to get to know each of you better and inspire or uplift you in some kind of way. 

Thank you, thank you, a trillion times THANK YOU!!!!



What are you most thankful for?



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My Weekly Ambition




I missed linking up over at Ambitious Curls for My Weekly Ambition for the last couple of weeks.  But I am back on the wagon.  About my last MWA post, I totally did not exercise for 30 minutes like I was suppose to everyday.  Does chasing after kids count?  I have been managing to write for an hour everyday.  However, I tend to self edit as I write and that doesn't make for very good progress.  I did manage to start and end my days on a positive note though! 









To exercise for 30 minutes everyday.  I'm not working out to drop pounds because I think I'm good where I'm at weight wise.  However, it's time to tone this tummy and these legs back up.  I have drifted away a little ways from the college freshman body, I had when I first met my husband.  He's not complaining, but I sure as heck am!




To work on concepts for my book cover.  My book is not finished but it finally has a title (click here to find out what it is) and I have a rough mental picture of what I want the cover look like.  I need to just refine it a little bit and then get busy networking and making some calls to get the proper people on board to help me execute the vision.  

This book is like my baby and I've been guarding it with my life.  I don't just want to be putting a bunch of words out there.  I'm so passionate about writing because it is my art and I want readers to be able to feel that from cover to cover.



To have more patience.  I am more patient with kids, but I still need to work on my patience with the Mr.  I think that the year we took apart and then all the time we had been growing apart up until that point got me used to having my space, coming and going as I wanted and interacting more people my age.  When I first met my husband, gestures of affection (i.e.-hugging, holding hands, cuddling) weren't something he was into at all because of how he grew up.  He just didn't see affection, but the opposite.

My parents on the other hand were very affectionate before things went down hill and as a result, so was I.  But I eventually adjusted to my husband's comfort levels as time passed.  We split.  Now, we're back together and I just don't feel like making the adjustment back to the old me.  Therefore, when he's in my space a little too much , I tend to get annoyed easily.

Honestly, I feel like old me who was more affectionate and wanted him in my space got her heart broken.  So, new me still has a wall up because I guess at times the hurt still feels fresh and the fact that this one car situation makes it hard for me to get out as much as I want to.  However, I am devoted to my marriage and will work on getting this wall down and finding a way to bump up my income so that I can get this second car fund back up.



What's one challenge that you want to overcome this upcoming week?  Did you notice anything different about the blog today?



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Bible 365: Week 51



One week and a day left and my Bible 365 Challenge will be officially over!  I will have read the Good Book in its entirety straight through.  Anyways, I hope that everyone had a blessed weekend.  I did.  I celebrated my birthday on Friday and we finally got car.  I was kind of sad to see our lovely BMW rental go.  That thing was sweet!

Saturday, the Mr braved the craziness at the stores to go hunt down a gluten free turkey and finish his Christmas shopping.  He said it was almost like the grocery store scene from Christmas With The Kranks at Walmart.  He had to race this lady to get the last gluten free turkey.  She even offered to pay a little extra for it, but he turned it down.  Thank goodness because y'all know my babies on a gluten free diet thanks to allergies.  Next year, I think we'll try prime rib or something because I'm anxious to start switching up our holiday menus.

Anyways, the scripture readings from Week 51 talked a lot about how we should live right and follow God's commands to show and prove our love and devotion to Him.  And I couldn't agree more.  He knows that we will stumble, but there are some out there who are just sinning to max and not even trying to get it right.  Yet, we see them talking about how they love the Lord.

Newsflash, 1 John 1:6 says, "If we claim to have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth."  Being a Christian or loving truly loving God isn't about lip service.  I've said this a million times on this blog I'm sure, but love is an action.  You show someone that they are loved by what you do for and with them.  "Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth" (1 John 3:18)  The same applies to God.

He wants to see us putting in the work to attempt to live as Jesus did.  And I understand better than anyone that this can be a hard task to live up to, but "His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness" (2 Peter 1:3).  He didn't send us unprepared to live a righteous life.  The Bible is our guidebook, Jesus is our guide and the tools to experience this journey are within us.  It's just up to us whether we use them or not.

And if you do find yourself having one of those days where you have been less than perfect in your walk with Christ, just remember "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just as will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).  We serve a forgiving God.  An understanding God.

We serve a God whose love is unconditional.  How do I know?  "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us.  And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters" (1 John 3:16).  God had one biological child in this world and He graciously and selflessly sacrificed him for us because we couldn't get our bad habits under control.  We couldn't stay faithful to Him despite the fact that He has stayed faithful to us!

With the New Year coming up, I think the one resolution that we all need to take up is to do away with fear.  For the simple reason that "There is no fear in love.  But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment.  The one who fears is not made perfect in love" (1 John 4:18).  How many of us are walking around with fear in our marriages, in our roles as parents, at our jobs or just walking out of our front doors?

I want to be fearless in 2014, in every aspect of my life.  I want to know the joy of experiencing perfect love.  A love so unconditional and pure.  Oh the bliss that will come from that.


Week 52 Readings
12/23: Jude 1


What fears are going to give up in 2014?


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Secret Santa: Libby's Library

I think Secret Santas are cool.  Being a Secret Santa gives you the opportunity to do something special for someone other than your loved ones.  And as a person who enjoys giving, this is right down my alley.  So, when I saw that Social Fabric was hosting a virtual gift exchange, I jumped the opportunity to sign up.  This was my first year participating, but I'm already looking forward to signing up again next year!  Now on to my virtual gift recipient. 



Meet Elizabeth aka Libby from Libby's Library

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I'm actually excited that I got selected to be Libby's Secret Santa because we actually have a lot in common.  For starters, we're both named Elizabeth.  She's also a wife and mother like me.  She has 10 children and 18 grandchildren.  I come from a big family.  So, 10 kids doesn't really seem like a lot to me. 

 Honestly, if the Mr and I win the lottery, we might revisit adding more kids after our third.  The amazing part is that Libby has given birth to a few of her children naturally seeing as to how she didn't quite make it to the hospital in time.  

We both love tweeting (follow her on Twitter @LibbysLibrary).  Seriously, if you're like me and love giveaways, reading product reviews and craft related posts, then you'll definitely want to check out her Twitter timeline.  She stays up to date on all the best giveaways, reviews and I've found more than one cute holiday craft tutorial since following her.  While we're on the subject of crafting, she likes to do that too just like me.  She's really into making jewelry and tutus.


Now, I really knew Libby was a woman after my own heart when I discovered that she likes to cook!  Y'all know I love food and I enjoy cooking it and being in the kitchen.  

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She is too sweet because she shared a picture recipe of her homemade spaghetti meat sauce recipe using Pompeian Olive Oil.  Now, I like to make my spaghetti sauce from scratch too.  If you follow me on Instagram, you've seen more than one picture of my famous sauce.  However, you won't get my recipe or any pictures of my secret ingredients.  So, hats off to Libby for revealing her recipe!

Needless to say, she's also a blogger like me.  I recently read her review for Standzout and now I'm talking the Mr into getting us one.  If you have an iPad, you'll definitely want to check out her review and see what Standzout is all about.

She enjoys reading!  I imagine that like me her night stand must have pretty decent stack of books on it.  I'd love to swap book recommendations with her.  Most likely though, we've probably read a lot of the same books since we're so similar.

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She's a fellow dog lover.  She has 4 adorable fur babies!  And she's not shy about getting creative with their names either.  There's George Henry Lester the Fawn Pug, Gracie Lou Freebrush the Carolina Dog, Gung Poe Wigglebutt (my favorite) the Black Pug and her service dog Gabriel Guardian Angel the Plott Hound/Wemaraner.

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I have to admit that I am slightly jealous because due to the kids' allergies, I can no longer have dogs.  And this girl who's always had a dog that is just heartbreaking.  Thankfully, I can live vicariously through fellow dog lovers like Libby and just adore their pooches from the safety of my computer screen.

Other interesting facts about Libby is that she's from Baton Rouge, LA!  That's close to NOLA and y'all know I love me some NOLA.  I love Louisiana period because the soul food and sea food there no matter what city you stop in is just heaven on a plate.  No wonder Libby enjoys cooking.

O Negative.  If you don't know, people with O Negative blood type are very unique in that their blood type is compatible with other blood types but they can only accept blood transfusions from another O Negative donor.  She's a hard worker.  She's worked in home sales, been substitute teacher (another thing we have in common), served as office manager (me too) and is currently a writer/blogger (again me too!).

Her family motto is: What doesn't kill us...makes us stronger.  And let me tell ya, Libby is strong.  She suffers from severe food allergies (y'all know that I know all about these with the kiddies), Reynauds Disease, Hypo-Thyroidism, Fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue.  Lord bless your heart Libby.  You're really going through, but still you keep so positive.

I know it's difficult and that you probably have your days where you wish you could snap your fingers and make it all go away.  My children suffer from severe allergies, asthma and a few other things and it just kills me sometimes when I have to watch them battle it all.  Life can be really unfair sometimes.  However, I love that you have not let any of your health issues get you down.

Libby says that she has "chosen Joy over Sorrow.. an Attitude of Gratitude and instead of living with a woe is me mentality, I try to look at hardships, as a way to learn and grow."  Well, I take my hat off to you.

I've learned so much from Libby after spying on her via her blog and social media sites these past few weeks.  She's truly an inspiration.  And the one thing she wrote that stood out to me most was "I live, love, and laugh as much as possible."  Well, with the New Year upon us, I am going to try my best to adopt this as mantra for 2014.  Libby has inspired me to not let all the negative things steal my joy.  I too refuse to live a life of sorrow, but to set a better example of making lemonade out of lemons for my children.  Thank you!

If you want to get to know Libby, here's where you can find her hanging out at:




Check out some other Secret Santas writing about their virtual gift recipients in the linky below.


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28: A Year of Faith And Thanksgiving




HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Me!!  Year twenty-eight has definitely been one of learning to keep the faith and giving thanks.  I feel beyond blessed to be marking my 28th year on this earth.  Truly in today's society making it 25 is a milestone once you think about all the violence and foolishness that goes on.  So, to be able to sit here at 3:30 in the morning of my 28th birthday surrounded  by the kiddies and the Mr makes me feel even more humbled, grateful, special and slightly speechless.

I've had my share of ups and downs this year, but I count it all as joy.  This past year has taught me so much about strength, strengthening my faith, surrounding myself with people who love me  and pushing forward.  There were numerous times that I wanted to give up.  Things got hard or situations didn't turn out as I had planned them and it seemed like throwing in the towel was the best answer.

However, I am not a quitter folks!  My battles and struggles from this year have prepared me for year 29.  I'm looking forward taking bigger leaps, reaching higher heights and just growing period.  I'm looking forward to enjoying more time being in the moment with my family and truly experiencing life instead of just sailing through it.  I'm going to stop and observe the scenery more.  I'm going to try my hardest to live each day as if were my last and trust the path that God and I have worked together to create.

I'm beyond thankful for everyone who has been hanging in here with me from day 1 and even for those who just started hanging with me a few seconds ago.  Your support, words of encouragement and prayers mean a lot.   I appreciate your interest in reading about my journey and listening to what I have to say.  Can't wait to share what unfolds in this new chapter!




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And The Winner Is....

Well, the Rejuvenator giveaway has finally come to an end.  I just want to say thank you ago  to the folks over at Rejuvenator for sponsoring this giveaway! So, without further ado, the winner is.....




Congratulations Kim!  And a huge thank you to everyone entered and helped to promote this giveaway.  If you didn't win, no worries.  There will be more awesome giveaways coming soon.




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Bible 365: Week 50



Happy Monday!!  Y'all, I am back in business.  I have one laptop back up and running.  No more blogging and trying to answer emails from the Kindle and phone apps.  That was really challenging.  Plus, I have like a ton of stuff to type up and submit to my writing group for my novel.

Anyways, two weeks left until I'm done with my Bible 365 Challenge! Woot, woot!  This mama is so very proud of herself.  After a trying and emotionally draining last few weeks, it seems like God had a special message for me in almost every passage I read from Week 50.  It's amazing how He works and sends us signs.  Here are a few of the verses I jotted down to reflect back on when I feel like I'm back at my breaking point.

~"Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." (Hebrews 11:1):  Lord knows this whole situation with JJ is requiring me to have faith and stay hopefully like I've never had to do before.  His last two therapy sessions have not gone very well and it's tempting to let my faith waver, but I will not give confidence that God is sending us a breakthrough.  I can't see it now, but I know it's coming.

~"No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.  Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it." (Hebrews 12:11):  Going through trials and tribulations are never fun, but the end result in terms of how much stronger our faith will be and how much more righteous will be able to live our lives is worth the suffering.  Joy comes back at some point.  So, you just have to hang in there and trust the process until then.  Also, read James 1:2-3.

~"Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters.  Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it." (Hebrews 13:1-2):  This is why it pays to be kind to everyone you meet.  We don't come equipped with special glasses that allow us to distinguish from angels from regular human beings.  And if you just think about the fact that God allows His angels to live among us in our form, it's kind of mind blowing.  Can you imagine that having gave a homeless man a few extra bucks and then finding out he was really angel sent here on a mission?

I thought about not doing the yarn/blanket drive because I'm not sure what the response will be aside from the two volunteer donors I got last week.  However, I prayed on it, I truly feel like God is telling me to move forward with it.  Those blankets are going to touch the lives of young moms and their children who are homeless but working hard to get back up on their feet.  I want to be a blessing a them even though I don't know them mainly because so many strangers have been a blessing to me!

~"Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said 'Never will I leave you, never will I forsake you'." (Hebrews 13:5):  We serve a God of yes!  And when you remember this, you don't have to focus on what you don't have because He knows our needs before we do and will provide them if we just show patience and thankfulness for what we already have!

~"You see that a person is considered righteous by what they do and not by faith alone." (James 2:24):  Faith without works is dead.  You can't just walk around saying you have faith.  You have to actually walk in faith and live as though what you're requesting of God is already done.


~"Live as free people, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as God's slaves.   Show proper respect to everyone, love the family of believers, fear God, honor the emperor." (1 Peter 2:16-17):  Your writes should not infringe on the rights of others.  However, we see this practice being done everyday.  People use their freedom of speech to be just down right rude and that just should not be.



Week 51 Readings
12/16: 2 Peter 1
12/17: 2 Peter 2
12/18: 2 Peter 3
12/19: 1 John 1-2
12/20: 1 John 3-4
12/21: 1 John 5




What other freedoms or rights do you think we abuse too much in today's society?


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Thankful Thursday





Happy Thankful Thursday!  The weekend is almost here.  I don't have plan  to anything except for work on my book, continue practicing JJ's speech therapy exercises, see working Moo on her handwriting and spelling and do some networking.  I stayed up until 4 AM this morning thinking and trying to formulate some plans.

I have to kick this funk that I have been in and get my head back in the game!  A new year coming and I refuse to go into with negative attitude and not being on point.  There are so many changes that need happen and the only they will happen is if I plan and follow true.  I am so thankful for that moment of clarity.

I am also thankful for all the encouraging and kind comments I have been getting in reference to JJ's delayed speech and his speech therapy.  Thanks to everyone has helped me to remember that things will get better.  There is hope and I just have to hang in here.  I have to be strong for JJ because at the end of day this affects him a lot more than me since he is the one suffering.

I am thankful for Moo.  That little girl always knows what to say.  This week she has been very vocal in telling me how much she loves me and appreciates everything I do for her and JJ.  Seriously, I hope she keeps such a sweet and compassionate heart as she gets older.  I pray that the craziness of this world we live in never taints her spirit.  No what she and JJ will always be the best things that ever happened to me.

A huge thank you to Christina from Being Mrs Jones and Mrs AOK for volunteering without hesitation to donate yarn for my yarn drive to make blankets for charity.  It means so much to your support ladies!  I will be putting an official post next week with more information on what the yarn drive is all about, why I want to do it, etc.

My creative juices are flowing and I have been making process on my novel.  I am thankful for that because I really want to make this book something that I will proud to have my name on when it's released.  I have been working hard on trying to connect with other authors, book agents and book bloggers.  I have even gone so far as to setup approved social media accounts because I do want to keep YUMMommy separate.  

But I am thankful that I have taken these steps forward.  It's starting to hit me that my dream is on the verge of coming true.  I always had a sweet spot for fiction and creative writing and to be able to share that with others is a blessing.  So, I will keep you guys updated.  



What are you giving thanks for this week?


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My Top 5 Ultimate Blogger Christmas Wish List

The kids aren't the only ones with Christmas wish lists this year. I made a little wish list of my own of items that I would love to see under our tree for me.  Of course, I would have to win a small lottery first, but a girl can dream.  Isn't the point of a wish list to wish and dream?  Anyways, I thought I would share 5 things from my list that would my life as a blogger and writer much easier.



 

I had the privilege of setting one of these beauties up for my mom's office.  It does everything I would need for it to do.  It's fast, sleek and all the trays fold up nicely when not in use to maximize  space on your desk.



You guys know that I have been laptopless for months now.  The struggle to continue blogging has been real.  And let's not even talk about my efforts to find a decent video editing mobile app so that I can continue my vlogging.  I've always been a fan of Sony products and have had good experiences with them.  Also, this laptop converts to a tablet and is pretty lightweight, thin and very chic looking.





Speaking of vlogging, the lighting in my current apartment sucks!  There's no overhead lighting in the living room where my desk is and where I filmed my first vlog.  So, I love to fix that by adding some lights that were designed specifically for videos and photo taking.  After all nobody wants to watch a vlog if you can barely make out the face.of the person vlogging.



Let's face it laptops are great because they are portable but sometimes you need the functionality of a desktop.  Again I love the Sony brand.  Also, this desktop comes with some sweet photo editing software and has a built-in HD camera so that your videos come out crisp and clear.  If I had to choose one gift off this list, this would be it!







I recently scored a great deal on point and shoot Canan PowerShot from Target, I would like something a little bit more fancy.  I am seriously looking into my options of turning Moo's Closet into a real boutique and I want a camera that will take stunning and high quality pictures of my products.  And sometimes that means using a different camera lens.



What's on your Christmas wish list this year?





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Bible 365: Week 49

Happy Monday!  I hope everyone had a great weekend.  It was cold and rainy here, but it gave me an excuse to get in the kitchen with the kiddies and do some baking.  Yep, JJ joined us this time around and he had a blast.  His favorite part was stirring the batter for our muffins.  Looking forward to spending more time with him joining Moo and I in the kitchen now.



Well, just three weeks left and I will have officially completed the Bible in a year!  I am so proud if myself and if you followed along, you should be proud  of yourself too.  This week we learn that Paul has been locked up for preaching the gospel in his letters to his church families.  It's crazy seeing how religious freedom was such a foreign thing back then.  I couldn't imagine getting locked up now days for talking about my faith.

I amazed though at how upbeat Paul was in letters even though he was writing them from a jail cell.  Just goes to show you life is all about keeping a positive attitude, especially during our rainy seasons.  Here are a few of my favorite verses from Week 49 below.

"Similarly, encourage the young men to be self controlled.  In everything set them an example by doing what is good" (Titus 2:6-7).  I grew up in a family of mostly males cousins.  My mom has the most girls. And one thing that always got me fired up was how there seemed to be a double standard between us girls and the boys.  It was like everyone expected us to prim and proper all the time but the guys could do whatever they wanted and weren't expected to have self control.

Well, as a mom of a boy and a girl, I for one will be practicing Titus 2:6-7 in my household.  There will be no double standards here.  Whatever I expect of Moo will be expected of JJ.  I don't want them growing up feeling how I felt in my childhood.  I have a brother and at times my mom made it very obvious that he got treated differently because he was a boy.  Part of that came from how she was raised and the other half because it was always her desire to have a boy and I guess after having had three girls, she probably thought having a boy wasn't in the cards for her.

You the saying "three strikes you're out?"  Well, Titus 3:10 says, "Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them."  Fool me once shame on you, try to fool me twice and you won't get a third time.  Some people know right from wrong but remain determined to live the wrong lifestyle.  Those kind of people you have to leave.to themselves.  So, it's two strikes and you're out for me.

I was asked once by a frustrated friend, how could Jesus possibly know the pains we go through in life?  To that I have to say read Hebrews 2:18: "Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted."  A lot of times, we assume Jesus didn't know what it was like to be human like us because he was sinless and the son of God.  That couldn't be further from the truth.  If anybody knows about suffering and temptation it would be him.  You had the devil and high priests purposefully setting traps to trip him up.  And you don't think after seeing how appreciative the people where that he wasn't tempted to tell God to save him from the cross and just let them perish?  Compared to what he went through, a lot of have it easy.

"Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them" (Hebrews 7:25).  Jesus has our backs.  The fact that he is willing to intercede on behalf so that we may have salvation says a lot.   However, "If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God" (Hebrews 10:26-27).

Some of us thing that we have all the time in the world to get our lives together.  We've fooled ourselves into thinking that we'll have time to get right later but if I have learned anything it's that tomorrow is not promised to us.  Being content to deliberately go against what has been defined as the right way to is a good way to end up on the wrong side of the Pearly Gates!   So always put your best foot forward, be kind to others by loving your neighbor as yourself and stay in prayer.


Do you believe in double standards?



Week 50 Readings
12/10: James 1
12/11: James 2-3
12/12: James 4-5
12/13: 1 Peter 1-2
12/14: 1 Peter 3-4
12/15: 1 Peter 5

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Yesterday, my heart was broken when I heard the news that former South Africa president Nelson Mandela had passed away at the age of 95.  Mr. Mandela has often been described as a South African equalivant of Martin Luther King Jr and Malcolm X rolled into one being.  As a person of African decent, I can't tell you how grateful I am for everything he did so that my fellow Africans back in the Motherland could have the same equality we were fighting for here in the US.

His fight to end apartheid extended far beyond just the borders of South Africa.  He was and will forever remain a symbol of hope, equality and freedom!




I've been using the signs that JJ's speech therapist taught me on Wednesday and I think he's already getting the gist of it.  I did get him to try to mimic the sign for potty.  Like this entire process, it will take him time to get used to it and learn it.  I am also making it a goal to get through week without crying about this or blaming myself.  At the end of the day, I need to maintain a positive upbeat attitude and prayer when I feel a moment of weakness coming on.  He picks up on my moods and I don't want him feeling down or discouraged as we battle his delayed speech.

While  a new laptop is at the top of my list so that I want have struggle with blogging from my Kindle and phone, my number Christmas gift would be for JJ to be able to say 'I love you'll back to us when we he tell him that we love him.  I'm telling you if I ever took hearing those three words for granted in the past, I don't now.  I think it's every mother's dream to hear her child verbalize their love and I can't but feel like I have been robbed of that enjoyment.






I am steadily making progress on my novel.  I'm writing it out the old fashion way using pen & paper and trying to type a little bit everyday in Google Drive that way when I finally get a laptop, I can just download it to MS Word.  Santa going to have to push back getting the laptop I wanted for Christmas because obviously getting a car trumps a computer right now.  I'm hoping for a blessing the disguise of a nice sum of coins coming my way.



I'm thinking about putting together a virtual yarn drive to crochet granny square & rectangle baby blankets to donate to two local charities here in the Queen City who provide supplies as well as free housing to pregnant women and new moms.  Baby blankets don't take that long to make and each one would be a one-of-a-kind labor of love.  I think with enough promotion from me and the charities, this could be successful.  And crocheting relaxes me. So, this won't feel like work and I won't have to worry about getting overwhelmed.



What do you guys think? Is this something you guys would support or donate to? Any of you readers/bloggers who crochet or knit interested in donating a baby blanket or two?  I'll see what the response is and go from there.


I stumbled across this great list of 25 Christmas Traditions to start with our with families.  I saw a couple that I want to start doing with Moo and JJ.  Having our traditions for them to look back on and share with their children is important to me.  Be sure to check out the list and cute graphics on The 36th Avenue.





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